The Saga Continues

G called me for the past 3 days to pour out her concern about PB. She felt that PB is truly spinning out of control. I mean, she's been dissing herself and others!

Just a sampler of the disturbing comments that she's made. Some understandable given her agitated state of mind, others, I find it offensive and out of line.

"Do you find me gross in looks?"
"What about P? You think she likes S? I find her too skinny, she ought to plump up?"
"What do you think he meant when he said this? He's a scounderel right?"
"I'm going to confront him! I don't want to wait! I want to send off emails clarifying my name because I'm a conservative woman with values!"
"G will never dump you and treat you in such a shabby manner right?"

*shakes head and throws up arms in exasperation*

I straightaway told G that such comments are unnecessary and out of line. It's terrible! Why should PB rehash the failed romance between the 2Gs, when G is offering her solace?! And what irks me was the way she is talking about P's looks, suspecting that P likes S. I can bet my last dollar that P doesn't like S - S is precisely the kind of man that P detests!

Even G is stunned at the virulence of her comments, and that we are all seeing a side of her that we've never witnessed till now.

An angry, bitter, suspicious, paranoid side that is no different from a rampaging, bellowing elephant.

I mean, we are all friends, need you because of your grief, be blinded to our concern for you? Is not our concern for you far worthier than the scrap of attention that he's showering upon you?

Really, when women are dating, they ignore their friends. How many times have I seen this? Even worse, I've also been guilty of such behaviour in the past too.

Hindsight is always 20 20. She should really thank God that she's freed of this cesspool of a person. Definitely her self-esteem has taken a knocking, but she really should not put down herself nor another in comparison. It's quite uncalled for really.

A serious lesson lies for all of us here. I guess caution is to be exercised especially at the getting to know stage. Prefaced with prayer, one has to make a choice. And poor PB certainly had a very painful lesson.

My poor girl.