Monday, November 14, 2005

Crisis Mode

What is confidential, is, apparently, not so confidential, afterall. This was what G concluded when she found out that the whole gaggle of girls knew about it.

Granted, the scoundrel continued to create much pain and sadness in PB's life. But as I've often reiterated, not making contact with him, letting go and moving on is the best solution of all time. Both K and E sighed and said that they doubt the whole thing will have any proper closure, since she's so full of aggrievement about the whole thing. And every word that she speaks rankled her soul, and she sounded so joyless and bitter!

I think her good sense has taken leave from her. She could call multiple people to rant about the whole thing, and while we could talk to her till we go hoarse, I doubt it's helping her much. In fact, it's probably feeding her sense of unhappiness and bitterness!

I'm totally flummoxed. There seems to be no easy solution. As long as she felt aggravated by the whole thing or get to see him at common social outings, there's no let up of the roller-coaster ride that her emotions are taking.

In fact, she's starting to be dishonest with us. To me (because I always take a hardline against such folks and didn't mince my words), she'll say that she had put it all behind her and that she will forget him, but to G (who's the most kind and patient amongst us), she will pour her woes out, analyzing every minute move that Scoundrel made.

So much so such that G also felt rather tired to hear the same things again. Her goodwill, she confessed, is starting to flag.

The whole episode is fast descending into a cesspit.

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